On Arrogance
by josh- Published:May 6th, 2008
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“The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt” - Bertrand Russell
Arrogance: ar·ro·gance [ar-uh-guhns] offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride.
I have been accused of arrogance many times, most recently because of my last post. In the limited context of that one post, I can definitely see how one might think it arrogant. The problem is that I have written about the doctrine of hell several times before.
I don’t throw around accusations of sadism, hate, and mindlessness whenever I feel like it. I use them because I don’t know what else to do except call a spade a spade. Most of the Christians I’ve spoken to about this ignore my reasoning and continue to spew their hatred. That is the real arrogance here. The idea that you are right in the face of all reason and evidence. That is delusional arrogance driven by willful and prideful ignorance.
Are you proud of how much belief you can have in the face of over-whelming evidence? You are arrogant.
Do you think you are holier when someone ‘attacks’ your faith and you don’t let it affect you? Their attacks should be meaningless to you. True faith is something completely internal, that doesn’t rely on confirmation or disproof from the external world.
When you raise yourself above pesky facts and reasonable arguments, you are at the height of arrogance. When you think matters of facts are matters of opinions you are at the height of arrogance. When you hold unwaivering opinions about things you don’t understand, you are at the height of arrogance. When you are completely unwilling to consider the possibility that you might be wrong, you are at the height of arrogance.
And quite frankly, I’m tired of dealing with you. You are not looking to for reasonable conversation. You are looking to either demonstrate just how holy you are, or for a conversion. If it’s the former, you’re too lost for words. If it’s the latter, the best way to go about it is with reasonable conversation. Arrogance has no place in reasonable conversation.
Have you ever experienced being proven wrong about something? Being able to admit you have a mistaken belief and then changing that belief - that’s humility. Say the words, ‘I was wrong.’ It could have been about anything - the sports scores from last sunday, for example. Or perhaps something more important, like global warming.
Going hand in hand with this accusation of arrogance is the accusation that I’m ’set in my ways’ and that I’m unwilling to consider the other side. This is almost without a doubt projection. I’ve changed my mind about so many things. Here is a short list, formatted in what I was to what I became:
1) Republican (staunch conservatism, a ditto head) -> Libertarian (Randian in every way)
2) Libertarian -> Independent (to the left)
3) Global warming skeptic -> Acceptance Global Warming
4) Christianity -> Atheism
5) Creationism -> Theistic Evolution -> Naturalistic Evolution
Those are five really big issues. Don’t accuse me of being unwilling to change. I’ve demonstrated a remarked ability to change my ideas and beliefs.
So then the accusation is levelled: “See? You’ll believe anything! Show some thick skin, boy!”
At this point, there is no real point in replying, but I’ll do so anyway. You can’t have it both ways. Someone can’t be ‘unwilling to see both sides” and “willing to believe anything.” Since you’re too lazy to figure out what that means, I’ll explain it to you. I go where the evidence leads me. When new evidence comes to my attention, I have to give up any ideas I have that contradict it.
So you want me to consider your side? Offer me reason. Offer me evidence. Don’t ignore my rebuttals.
And please, don’t spew hatred.




